Learn From Others Wedding Planning Mistakes


It is safe to say that there have been many weddings before yours. Which is great news for you! You can learn from past wedding planning mistakes others have made before you.


Like anything we want to make sure to avoid mistakes so it doesn’t take away from the overall experience.  That is not different for weddings.  If anything it is more important given the importance of this day and what it means.


Let’s take a look at some of the most popular wedding mistakes to make sure you don’t walk down this same path, and bring your dream barn wedding to life.


1. Overlooking The Budget


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When planning a wedding, it is important to be mindful of the budget. Oftentimes, couples will begin planning their dream wedding without considering how much it will cost. This can lead to financial problems down the road.


It is important to sit down with your partner and come up with a realistic budget for your wedding. Once you have a number in mind, stick to it! There are countless ways to save money when planning a wedding, so there is no need to go over budget.


If you find yourself getting caught up in the details and forgetting about the budget, take a step back and remember what is truly important. At the end of the day, all that matters is that you are marrying the love of your life. Everything else is just icing on the cake.



2. Not Delegating


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One of the biggest mistakes you can make when planning your wedding is not delegating tasks to others. Trying to do everything yourself will only lead to burnout and stress. Instead, delegate tasks to your fiancé, family members, and friends. This will not only take some of the pressure off of you, but it will also allow them to feel involved in the wedding planning process.


Another mistake you want to avoid is waiting until the last minute to start planning your wedding. This will only lead to a rushed and stressful planning process. Start planning as soon as you get engaged so that you can take your time and enjoy the process.


Finally, don’t forget to delegate tasks on the day of your wedding as well.




3. Not Communicating With Your Partner


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The next wedding planning mistake you can make when planning your wedding is not communicating with your partner. It’s important to be on the same page about what you both want for your big day, and if you’re not communicating effectively, it can lead to major disagreements down the line.


If you’re not sure where to start, sit down with your partner and discuss your vision for the wedding. What kind of atmosphere do you want to create? What kind of budget are you working with? Once you have a good understanding of what each other wants, you can start making decisions about vendors, locations, and other details.


Not communicating with your partner can also lead to issues with your wedding party. If they don’t know what your plans are or how they fit into them, it can cause a lot of confusion and frustration on both sides.




4. Forgetting To Enjoy The Process


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If you’re not careful, the wedding planning process can become all-consuming. It’s easy to get so wrapped up in making sure everything is perfect that you forget to actually enjoy the experience. Here are a few ways to avoid that mistake:


First, delegate as much as possible. Trying to do everything yourself will only lead to burnout. Enlist the help of your friends, family, and even your wedding planner.


Second, take breaks when you need them. If you’re starting to feel overwhelmed, step away from the planning for a little while. Go for a walk, watch a movie, or just spend some time with your fiancé. You’ll come back refreshed and ready to tackle whatever needs to be done.


Finally, remember that this is supposed to be a happy time in your life.




6. Conclusion: Let’s Sum This Up


Planning a wedding is a huge undertaking that can easily become overwhelming. There are so many details to take care of and so many things that can go wrong. To avoid making costly mistakes, keep the following tips in mind:


  1. Don’t procrastinate. Start planning as soon as you can so you have plenty of time to take care of all the details.


  1. Make a budget and stick to it. Wedding costs can quickly spiral out of control, so it’s important to set a budget and then make every effort to stick to it.


  1. Don’t try to do everything yourself. Delegate tasks to friends and family members or hire professionals to help with the heavy lifting. Trying to do everything yourself will only lead to stress and burnout.


  1. Plan for the worst but hope for the best.  Meaning everything isn’t going to be “perfect” that is OK! Have back up plans and then be able to roll with what happens.


At Legacy at Oak Meadows we understand these mistakes and we do everything we can to guide you in the right direction to bring your wedding to life.


From the venue itself and how we have thought of every little detail to the professional vendor team we have vetted and recommended.  Everything we present to you is coming from the perspective of allowing you to fully enjoy your wedding process and have a stress free wedding day.


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